SCARS Institute Savior or Messiah Complex Self-Assessment
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About This Assessment
This assessment helps you examine what happens when you try to help, when someone asks you to help, and when you need help yourself. It looks at compulsive rescuing, the need to feel indispensable, the promotion of a particular worldview, and the use of helping or a new relationship to bypass your own recovery. It also helps you recognize when you support another person’s independence, shift into blame, hand over your own decisions, or withdraw when someone reaches out.
How to Complete the Assessment
For Sections A through F and I through K, think about how you have acted over the past three months with anyone you tried to help or who tried to help you, such as family, friends, a partner, or other survivors. Use the following responses: 0 = Never, 1 = Rarely, 2 = Sometimes, 3 = Often, 4 = Almost always. Mark N/A when the situation did not come up.
For Sections G and H, answer Yes, No, or Unsure. Use your scam recovery and relationship history for Section G and your childhood history for Section H. Base your answers on specific interactions. Recall what the other person asked for, what you did, how they responded, and what happened afterward.


